Thank you very much. :P :)
It’s what i’m here for~!
Thank you very much. :P :)
It’s what i’m here for~!
I have no more Sun in Retrograde jokes for you, but I would like to read your take on a Lilith/Pallas Athene conjunction in Taurus in my eighth house, 6 and 7 degrees. I’m a heterosexual male. I experimented when I was younger. That isn’t really uncommon, I think. I’m phlegmatic around people I’m attracted to. I’m also uncomfortable about my being raised to identify with masculinity, which is an inherently violent concept imo. I think it makes men predatory and insecure. Now I’m just rambling.
Assuming this is the Mean Lilith (there are four of them), it represents where you are lured into mystery - which happens to be in the House of mystery, taboo, and sex - conjunct interconnecting ideas and patterns. All in Taurus. My assumption is that you’re very aware of what the “norm” or traditions are, but find it wildly attractive to experiment in the opposite, the taboo.
Whether or not that comes to play in homosexual ways, is dependent on the individual. Gender and Sexual identity and extremely personal, and I avoid making any astrological connections.
Masculinity is an interesting concept… On one hand, it means be brave, protect, provide - but “back in the day” that meant fighting in wars, killing off threats, hunting down animals, etc. Today, that violence isn’t necessary, which leaves open gaps of - how can that be done, then? If out instincts and training for thousands of years programmed man to behave that way. Much like women; cooking, cleaning, housework, raising/teaching children - it used to be much more demanding and take significantly more time. Now with technology and school and smaller families, she’s available to do more. All of this is upheaval in our society, and will take a loooooot of time to re-program what has been survival instincts in us since… well, since we were primates really.
(Oops, now I”m ranting too!)
Hey, Calli! In synastry, my Cancer Mercury square someone’s Aries Moon. Most sources say that Mercury may be too ‘insensitive and overly-objective’ to the Moon person. But, I’m not sure if I should interpret it this way since Cancer Mercury isn’t the most insensitive Mercury placement out of the 12. To me, Cancer Merc. is rather intuitive and knows how to talk to people w/out hurting them. What do you think ? :o
Well, “insensitive” in this sense isn’t “lacking sensitivity” as much as “too consumed by one’s own feelings to consider that of others’” - which can occasionally happen to water placements.
The way I see it is that it sort of oscillates between the two. Sometimes, Mercurial Cancers will hone in on all the tones someone is voicing, know exactly what they’re really feeling, and how to appropriately respond. Other times, they’ll want to express their own emotions that they may do so passive-aggressively, in an attempt to express themselves without directly hurting the feelings of the other person.
With that Squaring a Lunar Aries, I think both are a real possibility. Sometimes, it’ll feel like the Mercurial Cancer just hones right on - other times, Lunar Aries will feel a bit offended, unable to place their finger on why.
Other placements and personal histories will effect this, of course. :)
(Cont.) I know he could be a Leo as well but have a more introverted chart like myself. How do I figure out how to talk to him or if we’re compatible without completely fucking up? I have a habit of messing up things like this and I just want to know what his sign is so I know how to go about talking to him ;~;
Okay, first of all: OUTGOING AND EXTROVERTED ARE NOT THE SAME THING. INTROVERTED AND SHY ARE NOT THE SAME THING.
Introversion is a mindset that often is focused on the internal environment - Extroversion is a mindset that often is focused on the external environment. For this reason, Introverts tend to be shy, and Extroverts tend to be outgoing. It’s completely common to be a shy Extrovert or an outgoing introvert.
It’s also a sliding scale - which means you can have some of the traits associated with Extroversion and some of the traits associated with Introversion. There’s MUCH more to each than just being shy or outgoing.
I love you, and this is totally common in colloquial English, but it’s also a huge pet peeve of mine. xD
That aside, honestly, don’t worry about how to talk to him. Just try to do it! Spark up a random conversation. “Wow, fishsticks again, woooo” could even work as a conversation starter. :p
And; don’t worry if you’re charts are compatible. Compatibility, in Astrology, gives an insight into the similarities and differences between two individuals - which can be used as a map to understanding any conflicts/fights you encounter, and therefore how to solve them.
Astrological Compatibility should never be seen as a limitation. No relationship will be unable to work based solely on their birth dates. It can help you figure out why there are problems - but not stop love from happening! :)
So, in summation:
Talk to him. Be yourself. Fall in love. It’ll all work out if it’s meant to and if you put in the effort needed!
I’m sorry love, I really can’t say for sure what goes on inside the mind of a person I’ve never met.
My best guess that that yes, you probably cross his mind - though it may or may not be in the same wistful manner as you think of him.
Regardless of circumstances, humans often think back to their first love. That person, negatively and positively, subtly or conspicuously, impacts the rest of their relationships.
I don’t know, it seems a bit sketchy.
I mean, on one hand maybe he’s just shy in person.
On the other hand, maybe he’s trying to start something physical, and after not getting it he’s losing interest?
I don’t really know, love. I highly suggest talking to him straightforward and honestly about it.
This is a very good question. I’m going to research this and get back to you!
Astrology is about our perspective, from earth and looking up. It’s about where all the planets are relative to us.
Earth is at the center of the natal chart. The ascendant is the stars rising over the horizon, the descendent is the stars setting on the opposite horizon. The midheaven is the point highest on the sky - all from Earth.
The aspects are the angles the planets make to each other - from Earth. If you think of a triangle, two corners are the planets and the third is Earth, and we just measure the distance (in degrees) between the other two.
Earth is woven into the entirety of astrology, in a subtle “read between the lines” way.
xD I was quite amused, yes!
If you have anymore, please send them my way. :3
depression is a disease, its an illness… it would be the same as you asking me ‘what sign is the most likely to get cancer’,
its very wrong of us to use these words as adjectives or personality quirks. its offensive and insulting to people suffering these
Also, Leo and Scorpio, our birthdays are exactly 3 months apart, both on the 12th. And he’s so kind and caring and he’s attentive and he has waaay better memory than me and his intelligence is sky high. He’s also good at everything he does, I’m just kinda like a trash can next to him. And ugh, I’m not a typical Leo when it comes to crushes like I freak out whenever I’m around him and my hearts beats hard whenever I realize he’s in the same room as me.
He also has this deep voice, I hate that I have a crush but at the same time I just like him so much. I have a Virgo in Venus so obviously I’m shy as heck. Also, unlike my past crushes (2 total in the past) I feel calm around him and it’s comforting whenever we touch and I don’t feel this crazy feeling whenever I’m not around because just thinking about him calms me but I do miss him, god I miss him some days. Cause we only have one class together but we’ve known each other for 1 year.
So do something about it, silly goose!
Tell him you like him. Or drop hints! Flirt a little, see how he responds. ;)
If you want something (or someone), go for it. You won’t know that he likes you until one of you makes the first move, so why not do it yourself? :)
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Well thanks! I appreciate it. xD I feel like I’m a pretty good combination of imagination and logic. ;)
You know, I am too. Lol.
I have no idea if they were doing it as a prank, or for a character for a story/rp, or what.
I figured, why not? And gave the most helpful and accurate answer that I could.
Maybe they’ll explain someday lol.
I dooon’t have any up at the moment, no. I’m still working on it in my “book” and I’ll post the stuff when it gets to a point where I’m sure I can reiterate/teach it to all of you in an easily understandable, reader and beginner friendly manner. :)
Honestly, you already know what the problem is; “communication is lacking.”
What you need to do is work on figuring out what you want to say, and then saying it.
You can do that when you’re alone and mulling over it.
Try taking out a notebook and freewriting. Don’t worry about grammar, punctuation, anything. Write down EVERYTHING that comes to mind for 5 minutes.
Take a highliter, and re-read it. High lite the things you feel that he should know.
On a new paper, write a bullet-point list of those things (in order of most to least important to you).
Then, begin elaborating on each one. Explain, give background, whatever you gotta do.
If need be, reread and condense each again from there.
When you’re satisfied, and think you can grasp all that you want to say, say it!
Call him up, and use your paper as a cheat-sheet and more or less read it all to him, if it helps. :)